What is the big deal?

He cheated.........and?

Why are we making this man do public apologies for his acts when men and women commit acts of adultery daily? Why has the media made him the face of adultery? In no way am I saying that his acts were by any means fine. I am simply saying that there are thousands of others out there who are doing the same thing, except they just have not been caught yet.

First Chris Brown, now Tiger Woods? I suggest all you other successful black men keep it tight. It only takes one wrong move.

"Onto the Next One" Jay-Z Video

So Jay-Z brings to us one of his newest pieces of visual art from his latest album The Blueprint 3. After watching this video...I was just left blank. In fact, perhaps I was also a bit creeped out but oddly enough I LOVE it. Or maybe I shouldn't love it because I really cant understand what this man is trying to portray. I feel like Hov was trying to show a whole bunch of symbols. I have no clue. You see for yourself.

xoxo,

Lolita

"Shy Ronnie...Speak Up"

Because sometimes, you need a little laughter.

Rihanna had made her debut on SNL this past weekend, and heres the skit. Pretty funny.

Smiles,

Lolita

"Show me ya teeth."

True. So very true. This past weekend, I came to a sad realization. It was one of those epihany's that occurs when you are in deep thought contemplating the many different aspects of your life. Specifically, the one about love. I suddenly realized, that maybe I have been making one of those mistakes that many of us do quite frequently, and that being confusing lust with love.

Sincerely,

Lolita

Lady Gaga Presents The Fame: Monster

I personally am excited to see some new stuff from this crazy, absurd, creative and talented lady. Lady Gaga will release The Fame Monster in the United States on November 23rd. There will be eight fresh new tracks from producers such as Rodney Jerkins and RedOne who produced the lead single "Bad Romance." So why call it Monster? While in an interview with MTV, Lady GaGa explains":

"While traveling the world for two years, I've encountered several monsters, each represented by a different song on the new record: my 'Fear of Sex Monster', my 'Fear of Alcohol Monster', my 'Fear of Love Monster', my 'Fear of Death Monster', my 'Fear of Loneliness Monster'...etc.."

hmmmmmm....interesting. I guess you can say we have all had those fears at some point.

Touche Gaga...

xoxo,

Lolita

I Love Weirdness

I hear so many negative responses on Lady Gaga's outfits: "What is that girl wearing?" "Is she high?!?!" "Lady Gaga is sooo weird." Even, artist Katy Perry via twitter commented saying "Lady Gaga must get her outfits from out of space." Quite frankly, I love her outfits. They may not be something I would wear in public, but its bold, different, and just plain weird. Better yet, WHO SAID that you had to dress this way, or dress that way in order to be accepted. Basically people, I dont believe Lady GaGa is dressing FOR YOUR APPROVAL. Furthermore, let us not forget Lady Gaga's outstanding performance at the VMA's, that I believe was a form of art. I love an artist that can give a performance leaving you questioning, weirded out or even telling a story. Yeah you can sing and dance, but what are you trying to convey in your performance? Anywho, Lady GaGa reveiled another outfit at fashion week that surprised people yet again....
Hmm...Im thinking she was trying to go for maybe a..."bloody mary, holy virgin" kind of look??? I dont know. But you go head GaGa with your weird self! In this picture, shes sporting a red laced cat suit with a matching choker and a red thong to match. Anyway, during her appearance at Fashion week, GaGa announced a joint US tour with Kany West. This tour is called the "Fame Kills" tour and it kicks off November 10 in Phoenix and goes on to canadian venues continuing onto January of next year. Kanye told the Rolling Stone magazine of their awesome pairing: "She's talented and so incredible, that shes not even an opening act. Were doing it together, with no opening act."
Lets give it up for the uniqueness that is Lady GaGa shall we?

Peace & Weirdness,

Lolita

Leighton Meester!

I love this girl! From CW's hit show Gossip Girls to Cobra Starship's latest song "Good Girls Go Bad", little miss Blaire Waldorf (Leighton) has been dipping her toes into a little bit of everything. Who knew she could sing? By the way, Cobra Starship's latest album "Hot Mess" was pretty cool. If you havent checked it out yet, please do so. Anywho, Ms. Meester did some photos for the fasion mag, Bazaar......

Go Leighton! Style in the last pic was fierce!

xoxo, Lolita

When You make a Mistake and youre a Celebrity...(specifically a black celeb)

Now lets get this clear. What I am about to say are not some words from an infatuated fan, groupie or anything of the sort. Simply put...give it up already. The reports and all the other crap thats been all over the news about Chris Brown and Rihanna. Honestly, how many people still feel that this is a juicy topic? Its entirely old news now. Dont get me wrong, what Chris Brown did was wrong. WRONG. But then again, everybody makes mistakes and horrible actions. Everybody has at one time in their life made an action that was wrong. That is precisely what makes us human. The media has run on and on with this.

Now onto what led me to blog this....

It has been reported on TMZ, Media Takeout, Access Hollywood and CNN that Chris Brown had said "he doesnt remember assaulting Rihanna". Heres what Chris had said in response to all of the drama:

"There have been reports on the Internet that I didn't remember what happened that night with Rihanna. I want to try and set things straight.That 30 seconds of the interview they used of me was taken from a one hour interview during which that same question was asked something like 4 or 5 times -- and when you look at the entire interview you will see it is not representative of what I said. The first four times – or how ever many times it was - I gave the same answer -- which was that I didn't think it was appropriate for me to talk about what happened that night. I said it was not right for me and it really wasn't fair to Rihanna. The fifth time – or whatever it was – I just misspoke. I was asked, "Do you remember doing it?" and I said, "No."Of course I remember what happened. Several times during the interview, my mother said that I came to her right afterwards and told her everything. But it was and still is a blur. And yes, I still can't believe it happened because it is not me or who I am or is what happened like anything I have ever done before. As I have said several times previously, I am ashamed of and sorry for what happened that night and I wish I could relive that moment and change things, but I can't. I take full responsibility for my actions. What I have to do now is to prove to the world that this was an isolated incident and that is not who I am and I intend to do so by my behavior now and in the future."-Chris Brown

ok....blah,blah, blah this crap is boring now. We are living in such a judgemental society. Point blank, and basically what has been happening since february with this case is that Chris Brown has been turned into a "poster child" for Domestic Violence. Quite frankly, domestic violence has been going on for awhile now. The "wake-up" call should of happened awhile ago people.

ok this was annoying and the last blog that I will ever post about the "Chris and Rihanna fiasco"

Peace and Love<3

Lolita

Kanye and Rose did it again...

So I was watching the Wendy Williams show (by the way...that lady can look like such a hot mess...but she is alot of fun to watch) and she released these pictures of Kanye and Amber hitting up Miami Beach for some alone time. So I had to scoop up the pictures. Go Amber! for going out topless and flaunting your stuff like there is no tomorrow. Go Kanye! for a plethora of reasons. Now, something comes to my mind when I think of this on again-off again couple (among other crazy things *insert wink here*)....is she really marriage material Kanye? Who knows? They compliment eachother well though. This is why i wanna make it big...so that I can run around topless and have the paparazzi all come and take shots.

(sike)

xoxo, Lolita

Diddy's Annual White Party!

Okay, I have not blogged in a minute. Hey what can I say...I have been a bit busy. Anywho, I saw these pics that Hot 97's MISSINFO posted from Diddy's annual white party. First off I would like to say that Lauren London looked absolutely adorable pregnant, and with such a beautiful glow. Amber Rose looked stunning. On another note, I have been hearing rumors that Amber Rose was kissing up on Chris Brown. Tisk Tisk. Another bad move for Breezy I think. So here are the pictures!

I do not care about any negative press Lil' Kim may recieve...I still like and her! Plus, although her dress pushes the realms of scandalous, it still looks great on her.

hmm is this before or after the kiss? I wonderrrrr

xoxo,

Lolita<3

In the Case of the Purple Wig...and Amber Rose's Crack...

So Lady Gaga sported this purple wig outside of her hotel in London. Thought it was pretty interesting. Perhaps it is only her that can get away with such acts as this. either way, she's too cool.

Amber, Amber, Amber.......Amber! Well, this ad was for Kanye West's Louis Vuitton Sneaker ad Campaign. I don't know what told Amber to do this, or who actually had this idea, but either way....this is a fierce ad. Thumbs up. I wonder how many people are going to be inspired to buy this sneaker after seeing this ad? hmmmm....